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20 easy winter health tips


For optimum health it is vital to eat a well balanced diet that is high in fibre and includes all the major food groups.
  1. For optimum health it is vital to include both soluble and insoluble fibre daily. Soluble fibre is found in foods such as psyllium husk, apples, oat bran and legumes (chickpeas, lentils). Sources of insoluble fibre include whole grains, broccoli, nuts, seeds and vegetable skins.
  2. Including fibre in your diet will offer benefits beyond your bowel. Fibre plays an important role in helping to prevent serious health conditions. Fibre can also help manage the digestive complaints associated with irritable bowel syndrome (IBS).
  3. The easiest way to boost your fibre intake is to eat foods in their most natural state i.e. fresh fruit and vegetables, whole grains (steel cut oats, rolled rye, brown rice, whole-wheat), legumes, nuts and seeds. If you are struggling to reach the recommended 25-30g of fibre per day, you may wish to boost your intake with a fibre supplement made from psyllium husk.
  4. Make it a priority to drink 500ml of water before breakfast. Staying well hydrated will give you more energy, mental clarity and enhanced digestive function.
    Teresa Boyce, Health Whisperer/Nutritionist.
  5. The first step to good nutrition is to remove all highly processed foods from your kitchen. This will allow room for nutrient dense, fresh foods.
  6. Preparation is key, plan your meals at the start of the week, pre cook and freeze meals ahead of busy days and always carry healthy snacks in your bag for when you are on the run.
  7. Make an effort to include raw foods such as fruits, vegetables, sprouts, nuts, seeds and fresh herbs. Raw foods provide enzymes, vitamins and disease protective antioxidants.
  8. When it comes to fruits and vegetables variety is a must. Take the time to learn what is in season and try something new. Selecting seasonal produce ensures variety, optimal taste and quality.
  9. When preparing meals you should simply think rainbow. If your plate is full of brightly coloured fresh produce you know you are on the right track.
  10. Drinking herbal tea is a tasty way to improve hydration. Herbal teas include ginger, mint, jasmine, lemon grass, and chamomile.
  11. A healthy diet is a balanced diet complete with all major food groups. Meals should contain a mixture of fibre rich carbohydrates, good quality protein and essential fatty acids.
  12. It is estimated between 30- 50% of Australia adults are deficient in vitamin D. The easiest way to increase vitamin D levels is by going for a walk outdoors and enjoying sensible sun exposure.
  13. Serving sizes have doubled over the years making it easy to overeat. Limit your portion size by eating from a smaller plate or bowl.
  14. Limit added sugars to no more than 10% of your daily calorie intake or 6- 10 teaspoons per day. To calculate how many teaspoons of sugar is in a food product divide the grams of sugar by 4. For example 16 grams of sugar is equivalent to 4 teaspoons of sugar.
  15. Probiotics are the beneficial ‘good’ bacteria essential for health and digestive function. Aim to consume probiotic rich foods like natural yogurt, fermented vegetables and fermented milk drinks on a regular basis.
  16. Health is a state of complete physical and mental well-being. Do not neglect your emotional health, take time out to stop, relax and breathe.
  17. Spice things up at meal times by using a variety of herbs and spices. Including fresh herbs will enhance flavour, texture and boost the nutrient value of any meal.
  18. Good quality sleep is vital for good health. Poor sleep can impact on everyday life affecting concentration, mood, stress levels and weight gain. Aim to get into bed early and enjoy around 8 hours of deep sleep.
  19. Fibre can benefit energy levels. Soluble fibre slows the rate of carbohydrate digestion and absorption therefore preventing blood sugar surges and crashes. Foods that are high in fibre are ideal choices for sustained, balanced energy throughout the day.
  20. Studies have indicated that consuming around 7g of soluble fibre per day can help lower blood cholesterol levels. Once consumed soluble fibre binds to cholesterol aiding its passage through the body and eventual elimination. Don’t forget to drink plenty of water, soluble fibre works best when partnered with water.
Whether you're attached, flying solo, or somewhere in between, there's bound to be something on your heart's mind. From how sex can improve your health to the ultimate guide to contraception and the science of a broken heart (ugh, sorry...), check out these resources for everything you want and need to know about love, sex, and romance.


Relationships and Love



1. How I Stay Single and Sane While All My Friends Are In Relationships

There have been laughable dates, periodic tears, and lots of people who feel sorry for her. Here’s how one Greatist writer learned to cope with being single when (almost) everyone else her age had already paired off.


2. How to Set Healthy Boundaries in Every Relationship

Guest Writer Jennifer Kass outlines how to know if you're not setting healthy boundaries in a relationship, plus three crucial steps for becoming your own best advocate.


3. How to Find Love in 4 Minutes: The Science of Speed Dating

What else can ruin a first date besides bad breath? It turns out, a lot. Researchers analyzed speed-dating interviews and found several factors that predict a lack of connection.


56 Things You Didn't Know About Sex, Love, and Relationships: Date Ideas

4. 30 Cheap and Awesome Date Ideas Under $30

From stargazing, to kayaking, to coffee shop hops, check out this creative list of ways to reconnect with your sweetie without stressing out your wallet.


5. The Surprising Health Effects of Love

It's not just about roses and candlelit dinners. Romance can have a positive (and negative) impact on our health and wellbeing.


6. Sex With an Ex: Are Post-Relationship Hookups a New Normal?

On again, off again, then back on—turns out those tumultuous relationships are pretty common among young adults. But what do they mean for personal development, and is “ex sex” the new normal?


7. Is My Partner Bad for My Health?

Our romantic partners may not share every interest with us, and that's okay. But when do quibbles over exercise and eating habits become reasons to call it quits?


8. The Science of a Broken Heart

Whether it’s the result of a breakup or the death of a loved one, heartbreak can be an overwhelming experience. Fortunately, there are lots of tips for coping with the pain.

9. Does Love at First Sight Really Exist?
It happened to Cinderella and Prince Charming, so it can happen to us too, right? Find out if love at first sight is just for fairy tales.

10. 20 Bad Habits That Could Hurt Your Relationship
Want to lose the love of your life? Didn’t think so. Avoid these bad habits that could harm a happy relationship.

11. The Dirt On Dating: My Open Relationship
Do committed relationships require being monogamous? One Greatist staffer opens her mind to open relationships.

12. 15 Active Winter Date Ideas
Dinner and a movie is soooo last summer. Check out this list of active winter dates that will keep the heart (and the romance) pumping.

13. Will Living Together Ruin My Relationship?
Get close and cozy or give each other some space? Living together can change a relationship for the good and bad.

14. Wedding Season for All: Same-Sex Marriage Could Reduce Stress
Marriage goes way beyond the tax benefits. Studies have shown that heterosexual married couples are generally less stressed—and a new study shows the same goes for homosexual couples, too.

15. Become a Workout Power Couple
Hit the gym as a couple to help strengthen bonds (and biceps!).

56 Things You Didn't Know About Sex, Love, and Relationships: A Single Girl's Reflections on Valentine's Day
16. Table for One: A Single Girl’s Reflections on Valentine’s Day
I wanted Josh, but I didn’t want a relationship. Now I’m single and that’s totally fine. Right?

17. Modern Intimacy: Love's Amazing, Love Hurts
In the first of a series of columns on modern relationships, psychiatrist Dr. Mark Banschick explains why intimacy is so appealing—and so difficult.

18. Modern Intimacy: Explaining Commitment Phobia
In the second of a series of columns on relationships, psychiatrist Dr. Mark Banschick explains the fear of commitment and provides tips for building mutually fulfilling relationships.

19. Modern Intimacy: Coping With Neediness
In the third of a series of columns on modern intimacy, psychiatrist Dr. Mark Banschick explores why we can feel so needy in intimate relationships, and offers several tips for addressing neediness in a healthy, productive way.

20. 19 Smart Ways to Fix a Stale Relationship
For people in long-term relationships, “less passionate” phases are bound to happen. They also suck. But never fear—we’ve got the scoop on how to break out of a relationship rut.

21. Why We're Attracted to Assholes
The dream-date has gorgeous hair, beautiful eyes, and a breathtaking smile. But that same catch soon turns out to be selfish, unreliable, and unstable. Sound familiar? Read on to find out why men and women keep falling for jerks.

22. I Virtually Do: How Social Media Is Changing Marriage
If you like it then you shoulda’ put a ring on it. Or not? Find out how the Internet is changing the way we plan that walk down the aisle.

23. Health and Fitness in Relationships: Too Many Cooks in the Kitchen?
Former staff writer Kelly Fitzpatrick takes a personal look into the world of health and fitness within relationships. This time around, she talks to bloggers Alice and Martin about cooking as a couple.

24. Health and Fitness in Relationships: Workout Power Couple
Former staff writer Kelly Fitzpatrick talks to trainer Andrew Kalley and gym-wear designer Kelly Dooley about making it work as a fitness-minded couple.

25. Health and Fitness in Relationships: Eating Within the Rules
Former staff writer Kelly Fitzpatrick talks to Marnina Cowan and Seth Coburn, food bloggers with some big dietary restrictions.

56 Things You Didn't Know About Sex, Love, and Relationships
26. Why Monogamy Might Be Good for Your Health
Turns out monogamy is actually uncommon in most human cultures around the world. So what are the benefits of bonding with just one babe?

Sex, Sex, and More Sex
27. No One’s Satisfied With Their Sex Lives. Here’s Why
2013 research suggests most people fib when talking about how many sexual partners they’ve had—men round up, women round down. Why aren’t we more open about our sex lives?

28. 20-Somethings Suck at Safe Sex, But We Can Fix That
We may have our pick-up lines down pat, but how much do we know about keeping things safe in the bedroom? Twenty-somethings can be pretty clueless when it comes to safe sex, and that can have serious consequences for their health.

29. How to Have Sex Without Screwing the Environment
Doing your freak thang never looked so green! Sex isn't always sustainable (surprise!), but easy changes can have Mother Nature feeling good in no time. Read on for tips to make your sex life more eco-friendly.

30. Porn Doesn’t Have to Make You Sexist, But It Totally Could
Research suggests watching porn can make viewers more prone to sexist attitudes and behaviors. But don't set up porn-blocking filters just yet—turns out the subject is way more complicated than you might think.

31. Get Your Buzz On: The Weird and Unexpected History of the Vibrator
From its Victorian origins as a doctor’s tool to contemporary versions that sync to music, the history of the vibrator is fascinating, hysterical, and downright strange. We delve into the vibrator’s origins and explore how it’s perceived and used today.

32. Casual Hookups: Fewer Orgasms and More Regrets. Is Evolution to Blame?
When it comes to casual sex, recent studies have shown women are more likely to regret having it and less likely to have an orgasm during it. Are researchers’ conclusions about their findings missing the mark?

33. How Sex Can Improve Our Health, Besides It Being Sex
Getting lucky tonight? You may be in for more than you bargained for—in a good way! Read on to learn about the unexpected health benefits of sex.

34. How Much Sex Is Too Much Sex?
While gettin’ it on is a budget-friendly activity that’s both good for your health and your fitness, we explore whether it's possible to have too much of a good thing.

35. The Ultimate Guide to Safer Sex [Infographic]
A roll in the hay can be a good time, but there’s more to sexual health than just getting it on. Here’s what you need to know about safer sex.

56 Things You Didn't Know About Sex, Love, and Relationships: How Sex Can Reduce Stress
36. How Does Sex Reduce Stress?
Let’s get it on—turns out there are scientific reasons why sex can reduce stress.

37. Have Sexy Dreams by Sleeping on Your Stomach
So you want to have a more exciting nightlife? Sleep on your stomach. One study suggests those who pass out prone have more erotic dreams.

38. WIFI May Kill Sperm, Study Suggests
Tech nerds, take note: According to one study, the radiation from wireless Internet may kill sperm cells.

39. How Much Do We Really Think About Sex?
Let’s not just talk about it. Almost everyone thinks about sex, but is it possible to know how often anyone’s mind wanders under the covers?

40. The Ultimate Guide to Contraception [Infographic]
Contraception is key for a healthy sex life. Here’s everything partners need to know to make time between the sheets as safe (and baby-free) as possible.

41. 11 Surprising Condom Facts for World AIDS Day
It's time to brush up on sexual health. Find out how condoms are made and learn 11 condom facts you might not have known.

Burning Questions
42. Do “Friends with Benefits” Really Benefit Us?
Anyone who’s gone to college—or, heck, anyone—is probably familiar with the concept of “friends with benefits.” But what does science have to say about these relationships? And what “benefit” (besides the obvious one) do they really bring to our lives? Turns out definitions of “friendship” and “love” may be more complicated than we once thought.

43. Superfood or Super Gross? The Truth About Semen
Finally, the answer to the “Our Body, Ourselves” question nobody was ever brave enough to ask.

44. Do We Have "Sexual Peaks?"
Good news, everyone: Sexual performance and pleasure don't necessarily slide toward the dumpster as we reach our mid-twenties. Turns out sexual peaks depend on much more than age.

45. Masturbation’s Not-So-Dirty Secret? It’s Good for Our Health
Masturbation doesn’t just feel good—it’s also good for our physical and mental health. So let’s talk about it.

46. Do Birth Control Pills Control Who We’re Attracted To?
A 2013 study looked at how The Pill affects women’s preferences in men. Check out the information behind the Jedi mind tricks. 56 Things You Didn't Know About Sex, Love, and Relationships: Do Aphrodisiacs Really Work?

47. Do Aphrodisiacs Really Work?
Looking for a little extra love? We’ve dug deep to find out if aphrodisiacs really do the trick behind closed doors.

48. Men, Not Women, More Likely to Take Risks for Love?
Reckless driving, unprotected sex—no problem if it’s in the name of love. Research suggests men are more likely to engage in risky behaviors when they’re thinking about romance. But the same finding doesn’t apply to women.

49. Can a New Nasal Spray Really Help Women Orgasm?
For some women, reaching orgasm may be as difficult as reaching Nirvana. Now, there’s a new nasal spray called Tefina that claims to help women attain their sexual needs.

50. Sex and Sports: Refrain Before the Big Game?
Many coaches say athletes should skip sex before the big game. But will doing the deed really hinder performance on the playing field?

51. Is Internet Porn Killing Your Sex Drive?
Just checking email? Almost half of Internet users say they look at porn online, and the habit may be taking a negative toll on their personal lives.

52. Can Straight Men and Women Be "Just Friends?"
Can heterosexual men and women be friends, or do they only bond for the hope of some sweet, sweet lovin’ down the road? We investigate the science behind male-female friendships.

53. Is It OK to Have a Fetish?
Sneezes, feet, and armpit hair: Some people take it to the extreme in the bedroom. Is there anything wrong with having a fetish?

54. Should Men Get the HPV Vaccine?
HPV is the most common STI around, and ladies aren't the only ones at risk. We explore the controversy over use of the HPV vaccine for guys.

55. Is Dating Dead? Is This the Right Question to Ask?
Is dating dead? Are modern technologies killing it? One Greatist staffer weighs in.

56. Why We Kiss
Locking lips is something we’re all pretty familiar with, but where does that urge to plant a big wet one on someone come from? Turns out it’s not just about having fun. There’s some biology to thank too!
Looking for romantic date ideas? How about a picnic? A little bit cheesy, yes, but there are a lot of pros in having a date like this. A picnic is good for any occasion, you don’t spend much, and you can have some privacy at last. One more reason to plan a picnic date is simple – it’s summer! Only 2 months of warmth and sun left for you and your beloved one. Why don’t you surprise your partner with a nice eve outside, with simple food, nice talk and stars above your head? Here are several tips on planning a romantic picnic.


1. Find a Good Spot.1 Find a Good SpotLocation is very important for your picnic planning, as you want to create proper atmosphere. Make sure you don’t choose a park with a playground somewhere nearby. Kids running around and screaming will not help you create an atmosphere for sure. Make sure you won’t be disturbed by noises or smells. Of course, a picnic at the seaside with candles and the ocean and beach is a perfect choice. But if you don’t have an ocean nearby – just find a place with some grass and more or less pleasant views around. If the atmosphere is not romantic enough, you can change it with little effort (proceed to the next step). Don’t forget that a picnic is not only about meadows, parks, lakes and trees. Rooftops are a great alternative for a picnic date.


2. Think about Decorations.2.  Think about DecorationsOf course, it’s for you to decide whether to make your picnic minimalistic or add atmosphere with some details here and there. If your picnic spot has flaws decorations may help to make the location more pleasant to the eye. You can make your date vintage style by taking an old-fashioned basket, candles and blanket, or add oriental touches with small pillows and decorative torches.


3. Snacks3.  SnacksDon’t plan a barbecue. It’s not a family holiday or the 4th of July. You will spend too much time grilling and food preparation and will regret that you didn’t have enough time for romance. It is better to take something you won’t have to cook while on a date. Choose the food that doesn’t have to be hot to taste good and that is easy to eat (it is hard to keep table manners when sitting on the grass with a glass of wine in one hand and a piece of something in another).
Good ideas for picnic snacks: fruit and berries (especially strawberries and watermelons for summer time), sea food (previously cooked), mayonnaise free salads, homemade cookies and cheese
It’s better to avoid: eggs and dairy products (these spoil quickly), fat meat, fried chicken and potatoes, burgers; any heavy food in general.


4. Dress Up or Casual?Processed with VSCOcam with s1 presetThe question of picnic clothes totally depends on the location and the time of the day. If you are having a romantic morning picnic – jeans or breezy cotton dresses will do. If you want to add some fanciness for the evening, you may choose less casual clothes and add accessories. Just make sure you feel comfortable. Picnic means you will have to sit in different positions, move around, stand up/sit down on a grass. Tight skirt and stilettoes ? Nope. This kind of dress is not picnic-friendly and won’t be appropriate in this setting.
Don’t forget to take: bug spray, some warm clothes in case it gets chilly in the evening, an umbrella (unless you want to get wet under the summer rain).


5. Plan the Entertainment5. Plan the EntertainmentYes, it is a date, not a kids’ celebration, so you may think that you will find something to talk about and you will enjoy yourselves. What if not? Just imagine – you’ve eaten your dinner, enjoyed the landscape, and you can’t come up with a good theme for conversation. Will you be sitting and staring at each other or do something fun instead? You can take some table games, do a crossword puzzle together, fly a kite. Don’t be afraid that it will spoil your romantic atmosphere. You may be sure that this picnic will leave great memories for both of you.
We all like to feel secure in our relationships. And it doesn’t really take much — a compliment here a smile, a wink, an appreciative look there, maybe some flowers or chocolates once in a while and we feel like we’re in a perfect relationship. But all women occasionally like to test their significant others. Sometimes just for fun, other times cause we’re feeling a bit insecure that day and need a bit of reassurance. It’s all completely normal as long as you don’t go overboard in your tests and start questioning everything. For those of you who do feel a bit too worried (perhaps it’s that time of the month and you’ve had a bit too much pizza and watched a particularly awful movie that left you feeling insecure) here’s a great way to calm down.
While it’s completely possible to fake feelings when awake, it’s pretty impossible to do it when you’re asleep. You can’t fake a smile or give a compliment when you’re busy snoring. This is were the science of sleeping positions comes in handy. Statistically the closer you sleep in bed the stronger are your feelings and the happier you are in your relationship. BUT don’t rush with conclusions. Just cause you don’t sleep in a full body hug with your partner, it doesn’t mean you’re about to break up. So in order to avoid any rushed conclusions and misunderstandings here’s a rundown of the most common sleeping positions and the meaning behind those.


1. Spooning
   How to: One of you is on their side, with the other person snuggled up behind you.
Pros: It shows that the couple is close and happy and wants to show their love to each other and be physically close.
Cons: It might be too hot in the summer and you really don’t want to be hugged and be all sweaty.
2. Pillow Talk
Relationships 101 Sleeping Positions ExplainedHow to: You’re facing each other but not touching.
Pros: Represents intimacy and the need for one-on-one contact and conversation in bed.
Cons: Couples often worry about morning breath and just in general this isn’t the most convenient position for breathing, you don’t breathe in unison and you don’t want to inhale the air your loved one just exhaled.